Don't Forget

I find myself saying, "Don't forget..." a lot these days. I'm not sure if it's the change in routine, or the brain tumor, or what it is. I don't think I ever really thought to much about it before, but I constantly have to say things like, set a reminder and make a note. But while I was thinking about all the little minor tasks and reminders needed I thought what about all the things that are so important. I tired getting Scott to write a journal, I think he started :) I hope he continues to write it down. I'd really love to know what's knockin around in his head that he doesn't talk about or readily share.

But in the mean time, I've decided I need to make a list of things for him and my children to never forget. I'm never sure if they get what I am trying to do or not. But I have to just go with this one, it's inspired and I don't want to forget....

Don't forget I love you for eternity. I have loved you since we first met. I will never stop. It's not something I will ever forget how to do. Don't worry, I got this! And so do you, you'll always have my love, no matter what. 

Don't forget you're vital. You are the man of this house, we all look up to you. We are depending on you to get through this with us. We know it's hard and there is a lot of different kinds of pressure now. But Don't forget, you're not in this alone.

Don't forget to be thankful for every single minute you have. We are so grateful you're here. We know you don't always need to be around other people and need your space and time alone. But don't forget to come back and love us that much more.

Don't forget you are a hero and an inspiration to many people. To your family, there is no end to the appreciation for the things you do daily for us. You are the fixer, the mender of all things broken around here. We know you don't have to do all that for us, but we are so glad that you can and do! Don't forget, that you aren't expected to fix this or us. We know it's not in your control and it's okay. We love you, even when you can't fix it.

Don't forget that you are still you. You have been forced into a different circumstance. But the person you are, is still there. Don't forget to laugh, be silly, have fun, and find the joy in things you love to do and the people you enjoy being with. There is no one else like you and you make this world that much better for being in it. Don't forget, no one else can be you and bring your kind of perspective.

Don't forget that there is something bigger than you, and bigger than this trial you are experiencing now. Don't forget to be grateful for the knowledge you have, for your understanding, for the plan,  and for your abilities, no matter what they are.

Don't forget to take a minute and thank your Creator for all that you have been given. For all the beauty there is in the world, and for all the times He has been there to fill you up when empty, to bring you hope when hopeless, to carry you through when you didn't have one more step left in you. Don't forget you are precious to Him and you're soul has worth beyond measure.

Don't forget there are a thousand things left to say, that will go unsaid. It's your attitude and the way you treat others that matters most. You are a light and a gift that will always be cherished and a savior in your own way. Don't forget that. You'll have a million other things to forget, such as regret, disappointment, sorrow, and hurt, as time goes on. 

Don't forget that those honey-do's and projects, the daily schedule, and where you put your sunglasses, don't compare to the the things most important. Remember you are loved. Remember you are unique and special, and that no one else can replace you in this world. Remember, you have a divine purpose and that no matter how long you get to live this life, you got to have one. That's a big deal. Remember who you are to your family and friends. They love you for that. Remember you are an inspiration and you have a responsibility to keep on keeping on.

Don't forget.....please remember.....the only thing that matters is what you do with what you're given.
Remember what hope feels like and don't forget it's always there for you.